WARNING THIS IS A MAJOR RANT AND THERE IS NOTHING HAPPY IN IT
It just never ends! I am so frustrated with the system and how they collect child support! Wesley gets away with not paying on time or not paying all that he owes because the system is screwy! Because he is "self-employed" (not that he'd ever tell anyone if he had a job) they say they cannot garnish his wages!!
It's ridiculous. He is now over $1000 behind in support money that I need for clothing, food, shelter, etc for Chloe but he doesn't care. All the Idaho child support office will do is call him and say he needs to pay or they will suspend his license. So what does he do? He pays $100 and they leave him alone for another month.
He knew what he was getting into financially when he made the decision to divorce me. However he doesn't see it as supporting Chloe he sees it as his bitchy ex-wife trying to take his money. In addition to that I send Chloe for visitation in clothing that never comes back! Just one more expense that he is costing me because he and his high maintenance wife have to find ways to "stick it" to me!!!!
Also I am supposed to be able to talk with Chloe everyday between 6 and 7 pm. Do they answer the phone? Nope. Now when his phone rings it doesn't even go to voicemail, which means he probably hasn't paid his phone bill either. Chloe probably thinks I disappear for the whole week, because you can bet they don't let her talk about me and make sure that if I am mentioned they say something nasty.
Now with their new baby on the way things are bound to get worse! Chloe is already 2nd to his new family, just wait until one of those little brats shares his bloodlines. Which means that child support and daycare fees that he owes will become even less!
Why can't he just let me and Chloe be if he doesn't want to live up to his responsibilities? Let me get the hell out of Pocatello, Idaho and go somewhere that I can support us both without his help?! I had a great thing going for me with an amazing guy but it came to a halting crash because of the crap that Wesley puts me through! He didn't think he could handle it with all the things going on in his own life. So now I am stuck here without family, few friends and not even someone to date and share my life with!
I am so FRUSTRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!
2 comments:
Hey, Chloe. I'm so sorry for all your frustrations. I hope you know that there are people out there that love you and are praying for you. Keep it up, I think you're doing awesome! One day all this crap will be only a distant memory.
That's horrible. :( I'm so sorry to hear that. I will keep praying for you.
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